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		<title>Bali Spirit Festival Finale</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 04:02:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[point of the festival was not money. It was about bringing together some of the world's top yoginis, sacred musicians, instructors, and gurus. It was about giving back to the community. About sharing the true essence of Balinese culture with a wider audience in order to positively impact the consciousness of people throughout the world. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Bali Spirit Festival is behind us now. Thank you Megan, Kadek, Charley, the more than 40 presenters (many who donated their time), the hundreds of volunteers, the festival attendees, and sponsors. The organizers of the festival took a financial hit of over $50,000, but the point of the festival was not money. It was about bringing together some of the world&#8217;s top yogis, sacred musicians, instructors, and gurus. It was about giving back to the community. About sharing the true essence of Balinese culture with a wider audience in order to positively impact the consciousness of people throughout the world. </p>
<p>On all of these accounts, the festival was an gargantuan success.</p>
<p>Sunday, the last day of the festival was a free day, open to families, and anyone who wanted to join, and join they did. Musicians to play together, yoginis to teach together, the community to co-mingle with visiting foreigners. It was the embodiment of Indonesia&#8217;s proclaimed mission &#8211; Unity in Diversity. </p>
<p><strong>Sunday night jam session</strong><br />
<div id="attachment_1049" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080522.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080522-300x196.jpg" alt="Akim Funk Buddha " title="p1080522" width="300" height="196" class="size-medium wp-image-1049" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Akim Funk Buddha </p></div>[caption id="attachment_1048" align="alignright" width="300" caption="Akim Funk Buddha dancing while members of various bands jam together"]<a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080537.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080537-300x187.jpg" alt="Akim Funk Buddha dancing while members of various bands jam together" title="p1080537" width="300" height="187" class="size-medium wp-image-1048" /></a>[/caption]<br />
<div id="attachment_1050" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080526.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080526-300x119.jpg" alt="Jam session" title="p1080526" width="300" height="119" class="size-medium wp-image-1050" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Jam session</p></div><br />
<div id="attachment_1051" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080502.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080502-300x147.jpg" alt="Rocky Dawuni moves his performance into the crowd" title="p1080502" width="300" height="147" class="size-medium wp-image-1051" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Rocky Duwani moves his performance into the crowd</p></div></p>
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		<title>Hip Hop at the Bali Spirit Festival</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 14:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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I waited outside the Kafe Restaurant with a small group of people for the shuttle to the Bali Spirit Festival ground. One of those waiting was a quiet dark man wearing a bowler hat and bright Afro ethnic clothing.  I asked him if he was going to the Holistic Hip Hop class. He smiled, [...]]]></description>
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<p>I waited outside the Kafe Restaurant with a small group of people for the shuttle to the Bali Spirit Festival ground. One of those waiting was a quiet dark man wearing a bowler hat and bright Afro ethnic clothing.  I asked him if he was going to the Holistic Hip Hop class. He smiled, nodded affirmatively, and said nothing. </p>
<p>We arrived at the festival and as it turns out, the man was Akim Funk Buddha himself, <div id="attachment_1038" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 256px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080450.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080450-246x300.jpg" alt="Akim Funk Buddha" title="p1080450" width="246" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-1038" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Akim Funk Buddha</p></div>[caption id="attachment_1041" align="alignright" width="300" caption="Holistic Hip Hop"]<a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080423.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080423-300x216.jpg" alt="Holistic Hip Hop" title="p1080423" width="300" height="216" class="size-medium wp-image-1041" /></a>[/caption]a New York based performance artist and educator, who has performed at venues like Carnegie Hall, Lincoln Center, the Blue Note and was the instructor of the holistic hip hop workshop.</p>
<p>Akim Funk Buddha &#8211; gotta love that name.</p>
<p>Princess Lockeraroo, Akim’s DJ, spun James Browns&#8217; &#8220;Talkin’ Loud and Sayin’ Nothing&#8221; and Akim was off,  miming moves and motioning the students to imitate him. Soon, the lawn pavilion was filled with grooving hip hoppers of all ages &#8211; small children to senior citizens and all types- from hippies to suits from all over the world. <div id="attachment_1040" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080422.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080422-300x298.jpg" alt="Hip Hop students (that&#039;s festival founder Megan on the left)" title="p1080422" width="300" height="298" class="size-medium wp-image-1040" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Hip Hop students (that's festival founder Megan on the left)</p></div>Any self-consciousness anyone may have felt initially, was quickly shelved as they learned moves like popping and waving. I’m pretty sure that there were more laughs logged per minute at the hip hop workshop than at the Laughter Yoga class.</p>
<p>Simultaneously,  there was Kathak Dancing, Hatha Yoga, Prana Flow Yoga, Mark Whitwell’s “Practical Secrets of Intimacy &#038; Love” yoga , a drumming and chanting circle, a Javanese Movement meditation, a Sacred Middle Eastern Traditions Music workshop, and a fire dancing class.</p>
<p>I found myself at the tarot card booth at the Dharma fair whereupon I learned that there are to be more challenges in my near future.  OK, so bring it on (so I can get it over with). Everything happens fast here. </p>
<p>The headliner of the evening was Ganga Giri, a Didjeridu player from Australia who was joined by musicians from around the globe to pump out high-octave fusion. <div id="attachment_1042" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080469.jpg"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1080469-300x225.jpg" alt="Ganga Giri and friends at the Bali Spirit Festival" title="p1080469" width="300" height="225" class="size-medium wp-image-1042" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Ganga Giri and friends at the Bali Spirit Festival</p></div>The crowd pumped, jumped, leaped, and swayed for the next 3 hours. And when the lights went down, they moved to the Flava Lounge in Ubud, to continue to  into the wee hours.</p>
<p>Suddenly it doesn’t matter that I missed the gypsy music festival in Istanbul this year. Because world music has come to Bali.</p>
<p>Bloggin&#8217; from Bali<br />
Robin Sparks<br />
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 21:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The touchstone of my 3 months in Bali has been a discussion group I attend three times a week called Philosophers’ Notes. Brian Johnson from LA has been in Bali for six months writing Cliff Notes-ish summaries on 100 self-development books and in our group we discuss the big ideas he extracts from each one. He records our discussions and puts them on his website. <a href="http://www.philosophersnotes.com/">http://philosophersnotes.com/</a>]]></description>
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Everyday is an extraordinary day in Bali.</p>
<p>I began at 6AM this morning with a one hour holosync meditation, which is (in a nutshell) stereophonic sound designed to put take one quickly into an alpha state.</p>
<p>I then wrote on the terrace outside my room overlooking rice paddies, palm and mango trees, fountains, lotus flowers, a garden, and a pool. The staff brought me a breakfast of banana pancakes with palm sugar syrup and fresh watermelon, papaya, cantaloupe, and bananas. I put on a blouse I bought in Turkey, a skirt from India that I bought in Argentina, and flip flops from Brazil. Then I drove myself on a Yamaha scooter to see a house for rent in Nyuh Kuning, Bali by a guy from Oakland. I scootered through Monkey Forest past monkeys and temples and over bridges and up and around jungle ridges, past a man balancing a huge bag of who knows what on his head walking through a rice paddy and wound my way around tarp after tarp of rice laid out in the street to dry.</p>
<p>I ended the day at the open-air Yoga Barn in Bali participating a Osho-designed (India) Sufi (sect of Islam in Turkey) dance meditation, guided by Selina who is from the UK and has lived in Asia for 18 years.</p>
<p>Only one month left in Bali! Scary but a necessary part of the journey.</p>
<p>It is so easy to be here.</p>
<p><strong>Philosophers’ Notes Discussion Group</strong></p>
<p>The touchstone of my 3 months in Bali has been a discussion group I attend three times a week called Philosophers’ Notes. Brian Johnson from Los Angeles has been in Bali for six months writing Cliff Notes-ish summaries on 100 self-development books and in our group we discuss the big ideas he extracts from each one. He records our discussions and puts them on his website. <div id="attachment_826" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p10608964-300x225.jpg" alt="Participants at a Philosophers&#039; Discussion Group in the Yoga Barn - Ubud, Bali" title="p10608964" width="300" height="225" class="size-medium wp-image-826" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Participants at a Philosophers' Discussion Group in the Yoga Barn - Ubud, Bali</p></div>[caption id="attachment_827" align="alignright" width="291" caption="Our Philosophers\' Notes discussion group leader, Brian Johnson"]<img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p10608991-291x300.jpg" alt="Our Philosophers&#039; Notes discussion group leader, Brian Johnson" title="p10608991" width="291" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-827" />[/caption]</p>
<p>There was a new guy in our group today, a fan from London who discovered Brian’s Philosophers’ Notes online and came to Bali expressly to meet him. And not a minute too soon because Brian announced today that he’ll return to Los Angeles in two weeks. <em>(Note: Since this blog was posted, Brian has postponed his return to Los Angeles until August. Yay!)</em>  He’s been swamped with requests by authors to add their books in his Philosophers Notes selections. And a big name self-help author is advising Brian to expand Philosophers Notes and has hooked him up with the world’s largest spiritual publisher. In partnership, their mission says Brian, “will be to unify the world around a common set of truths.”</p>
<p>It is Brian’s work he says to challenge people to become fully alive. After being in Bali for 10 months “upgrading” his consciousness, he will return home.</p>
<p>All part of the “Hero’s Journey,” a mythical construct that comes up frequently in our discussions. From the intro in The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Joseph Campbell explains the Hero’s Journey like this: “A hero ventures forth from the world of common day into a region of supernatural wonder <em>(Bali in this case)</em>: fabulous forces are there encountered and a decisive victory is won: the hero comes back from this mysterious adventure with the power to bestow boons on his fellow man.” <em>I’m not sure what “boons” are, but I’m sure Brian will do a great job bestowing them. (-;</em> To retain the wisdom gained on the quest, to integrate that wisdom into human life, and then share the wisdom with the world is the most challenging part of the Hero’s Journey.</p>
<p><em>Go Brian!</em></p>
<p><strong>Today’s Big Ideas</strong></p>
<p>Today’s featured book was “The Other 90%” by Robert Cooper.<br />
First a caveat…I found myself editing the word “God” from the notes that follow and then I stopped and thought, <em>What’s up with this? Why am I comfortable speaking one way here but feel it’s necessary to edit what I say elsewhere?</em> It has occurred to me lately that almost all my friends in San Francisco and Istanbul are avowed atheists. In Turkey secular atheism is understandable as a reflex to the threat of fundamentalist Islam. In San Francisco, I suppose it is a backlash to fundamentalist America.</p>
<p>In Bali, the people I’ve been hanging with openly refer to God, Jesus consciousness, Buddha, Abraham…all the big names in religious history. People here exist on a level that I can’t quite put words to. It’s a polyglot belief system, beyond Christianity, while oddly similar. The words you hear Bali-ed about are energy, vibration, polarity, consciousness, prayer, Goddess…I’m a kindergartner in this language and “way of being”, but I like it. And actually I think I’ve been an accidental practitioner most of my life.</p>
<p>Two years ago I wrote on my Facebook profile that my religious beliefs are: “spiritual, not religious”. I dislike <em>(I was going to write “I hate” but that sounds decidedly unspiritual)</em> dogma and exclusivity, whether it is in the form of fundamentalist Christianity, New Ageism (I received a reprimand from a friend via text message when he heard I was eating at Naughty Nuri’s, a restaurant that specializes in barbequed ribs) or I’m-gonna-convince-you-or-else atheism. Yes, atheism is a belief too. When you believe that your beliefs are the only right ones, you are practicing dogma and fundamentalism. <em>My opinion of course. (-;</em><div id="attachment_814" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><img src="http://www.robinsparks.com/wp-content/uploads/p1060770-225x300.jpg" alt="Rice paddies south of Ubud, Bali" title="p1060770" width="225" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-814" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rice paddies south of Ubud, Bali</p></div></p>
<p>Quickly a little about my beliefs, I have always known that there is more than I can see. Since I can remember I have been able to sense things outside the physical plane. I am highly intuitive. I <em>know</em> in some indefinable way that there is a supra-loving, all knowing power both out there and in here, and well, everywhere, because I have experienced it. Repeatedly. And I believe that this super consciousness has manifested on earth a number of times to different ethnic groups as Jesus Christ, Buddha, Abraham, Mohammad…. and all the other “Greats”…If I had to pick one religion that resonates with me most, it would be Sufiism. Followed closely by Tantra.</p>
<p>Anyway, the word <em>God</em> as used in the notes that follow, means something bigger than yourself, which is in you when you are in tune with it. A something more than we can conceive of at our present level of consciousness that exists in every molecule in the universe. A universal intelligence if you will.</p>
<p>There! That said, let’s go…</p>
<p><strong>The “Notes”:</strong></p>
<p>Syntropy &#8211; The innate drive to perfect oneself.</p>
<p>Gradualness kills. If you want to make a change, Do it!</p>
<p>A good question to ask yourself is, are you closer to who you want to be and where you want to go than you were 30 minutes ago?</p>
<p>Winners are superior not to other people but to their former selves.</p>
<p>Your dharma, your highest calling, your raison d’etre is the divine expression of your unique truth. Everyone has it. It is when we shrink from expressing it in our lives, work and play, that we become depressed and frustrated. Most people numb the pain of non-expression through television, alcohol, food, drugs, gratuitous sex… fill in the blank here with your favorite numbing substance or activity.</p>
<p>When you take on the challenge to be and give your highest self to the world, you’ll be enthused, inspired, and happy.</p>
<p>You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.</p>
<p>What are you five signature strengths? Write them down and then make sure that what you do employs these strengths.</p>
<p>In every moment, we have the choice to step forward into growth or back into fear.</p>
<p>Pain is God’s gift &#8211; a challenge that helps us to grow as we reach towards becoming our higher selves, or as Brian puts it, “the unfolding of our awesomeness”.</p>
<p>When we get out of our minds and let the thing that is bigger than us, come through us authentically and truthfully, we are at our most powerful.He tells the story of a piano player who announced to his audience, “I am just a piano player, but tonight God is in the house”&#8230; Musicians know about channeling. Writers understand. Painters absolutely know. When you are “in the zone”, something bigger than yourself flows through you and the result is magnificence. By the way, it takes 10,000 hours of practice to master a skill. And it is through letting that bigger thing flow through you that leads to excellence. </p>
<p>Go away for one week of complete silence, just you and your journal, and when you get back into the real world the ideas you wrote in your journal will seem insane. Do them anyway. Those ideas were divinely inspired.</p>
<p>Whenever you feel stressed, ask yourself, “How can I best let God flow through me?”</p>
<p>EGO = Edging God Out</p>
<p>Brian says that personal development guru Gay Hendricks’s affirmation is “I expand in success, abundance, and love as I inspire others to do the same.” <em>Hmm, I wonder, is it ok to steal someone else’s affirmation?</em></p>
<p>Which leads to this one: If there is <em>a</em> path, know that it is not <em>your</em> path.</p>
<p>Are you a weathervane blown every which direction by circumstance? When everyone is freaking out about the economy are you stressed about it too? Or are you a lighthouse, rock solid beaming your light steadily no matter how hard or from which direction the wind blows?</p>
<p>Two of Brian’s top values he says are authenticity and full expression. <em>Beautiful. I may have to borrow these too. (-;</em></p>
<p>You can gauge a person’s character by how easily annoyed they are by other people and events. Picture a “character meter” with a 10 at one end representing someone unaffected by anyone or anything, and the number 1 on the other, representing someone who is bothered by everyone and everything.</p>
<p>What is your highest ideal for yourself? In every moment how can you demonstrate this by integrating it into your actions?</p>
<p>Embrace your biggest expressions, surrender to the power that is bigger than you.</p>
<p>Aspire to be a 2,000 watt light bulb that can sustain more of God’s flow without blowing.</p>
<p>Adversity &#8211; when overwhelmed, ask yourself, what is one thing I can do to gain some control over this situation? Action kills fear. Postponement feeds fear.<br />
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That’s a taste of life in Bali and a nibble on the Big Ideas from one “Philosophy Notes” discussion. More soon!</em></p>
<p><strong>Over and out, Robin Sparks &#8211; Ubud, Bali. March 6, 2009, where everyday is an extraordinary one. </strong><br />
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Dec.12, 2009 in Ubud, Bali


Do you find yourself waiting to do what you love until after you retire? After the children leave home? After you finish taking care of that other person’s needs? After, after, after…
Are you living the Life Deferment Plan?
You’re not alone. There is a way out.
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<p>Do you find yourself waiting to do what you love until after you retire? After the children leave home? After you finish taking care of that other person’s needs? After, after, after…</p>
<p>Are you living the Life Deferment Plan?</p>
<p>You’re not alone. There is a way out.</p>
<p>First, identify what you really want. You know you are doing what You want when you are infused with enthusiasm.The word enthusiasm comes from the Greek word entheos, which means to be inspired by a god. When you are enthused, you are plugged in, and the energy flows. You are in alignment with Source &#8211; your purpose for being on the Planet. Not only will you feel good, but everyone around you will benefit as well. Marianne Williamson says that when you let your light shine, you give permission for those around you to do the same.</p>
<p>For those of you who feel it’s your mission to put others first, if you feel any resentment around what you are doing &#8211; that you are sacrificing time that you would rather spend on yourself, stop immediately and reconnect to Source, to yourself. Giving comes happily and naturally when you are doing what you love.</p>
<p>How? For some it is exercise, for others art, meditation, yoga, dance, travel, spirituality &#8211; whatever it is that takes you back to the place where you remember who you are and what you love. Go there daily to remember and then take at least one action step per day to honor yourself and those around you by taking time for you. Ayn Rand, author of the Fountainhead, says that it is a far greater gift to others to inspire others by being your highest self, than to directly assist them at neglect to yourself.</p>
<p>Your family, your loved ones, your friends, your employers &#8211; some of them will resist at first, but those who have your greatest interest at heart will grow to understand that you are not abandoning them. They will eventually rally around what you are doing. Some people, perhaps even a job, will drop away. But do not fear! A void is necessary to draw in the right people and opportunities.</p>
<p>I abandoned my life deferment plan 10 years to begin living and traveling around the world to tell the stories of some of the world’s greatest adventurers. I am not rich. I meet people living uncommon lives all the time and they are usually not rich either. All it takes is creativity and the willingness to look outside of the box, and the courage to go against the grain.</p>
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<p>A month ago I moved from my now-home in Istanbul to Bali for the winter. Tons of self-inflicted guilt and resistance came my way, even a last minute injury almost causing me to cancel, but I came anyway, and it has been a precious, nourishing, and so RIGHT experience in every way!</p>
<p>I’ve not entirely mastered this skill of taking time for me. A few weeks ago a gorgeous Venezuelan man living in Bali began courting me. He helped me find a place to live, helped me move, introduced me to a meditation group in an ashram, a philosophy group, in essence he took care of me and I ate it up. Once seduced however, he began trying to convince me that anything that took me away from him should be eliminated. And for two days I found myself at his home in the jungle doing the things that mattered to him. I think I wrote for 20 minutes during those 2 days. We didn’t socialize with anyone else. My yoga classes dropped off. He said I should give up my home in Istanbul and move to Bali to live with him. He even tried to convince me that the offer of a free retreat I’d received in Bali in exchange for writing an article should be turned down because it would mean he couldn’t see me for a week.</p>
<p>Uh-oh, the old familiar feelings of losing myself came flooding back. How many times must I hit my head against this same wall before I finally get it? I “escaped” quite literally from his home in the jungle and am still struggling to resist his persistent overtures. I, like everyone, need love. But must I give up me for love? I’m trying to be ok with a void in my love life, keeping the faith that the right man for me will be in alignment with what I am doing (and me with what he is doing) and will support it, not ask me to abandon it.</p>
<p>As for you, whether it be a spouse or lover a job, a member of your family, societal expectations, whatever &#8211; remember that when you do what you love, you are entheos, and not only you, but everyone around you wins.</p>
<p>This is so important that I encourage you to join us this coming March 27-29, 2009 at a Time For Me conference in the Virginia mountains near Washington DC. Best selling author and speaker, Barbara Sher, will be the key note speaker&#8211; <a target="_blank" href="http://www.barbarasher.com" mce_href="http://www.barbarasher.com">www.barbarasher.com</a>. I’ll be speaking too, telling the stories of my global adventures these past 10 years and the amazing people I’ve met along the way.</p>
<p>Come take time for you. It will change your life. <a target="_blank" href="http://www.notimeforme.net" mce_href="http://www.notimeforme.net">NoTimeForMe.net</a></p>
<p>Robin Sparks founder of OneWorld Ltd<br />
Istanbul, Turkey<br />
<a href="http://www.robinsparks.com" mce_href="http://www.robinsparks.com">www.robinsparks.com</a></p>
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